Monday, April 30, 2012

Happy Birthday, Frederick

Three posts in one day! Here's the final one, wishing grandson Frederick a happy birthday. Eight years old today. This photo was taken last Thanksgiving in our basement. We just spoke to him on the phone as the family was getting ready to eat dinner. The best part of talking to him was knowing that we will be with him in a few days. See you soon, Fef.

Eleanor's First Communion

This week it was Eleanor's turn. A large collection of Aments, Bernases, Rummels and more assembled at St. Ambrose Church to celebrate with Eleanor and the day's festivities continued at Kate and Ron's house—delicious food and a chance to renew our acquaintance with Ron's great family. I had to wait until Ron posted this photo on Facebook because Eleanor had been quick to shed this beautiful dress (sweater knitted by Kate, headband created by grandma) in favor of her more typical attire—jeans and a T-shirt.

In his Facebook post Ron mentioned Ellie's other achievement last weekend—scoring three goals at soccer. Doesn't she look like a formidable opponent? Either way she is a delightful eight-year-old, and she can more than hold her own against her three older brothers.

What do I have in common with Marlon Brando?

Very little, as it happens. I was thinking of him as I started hauling out some of the summer clothes, because this astonishing cold and rain is going to go away soon. Isn't it? It has already massacred two of my hydrangeas which had come out into luxuriant leafiness in the dog days of March.

My summer wardrobe consists to a great extent of T-shirts. White ones. When I put them away in the fall, I always notice how grungy they are, but think they will do until I buy the next year's collection. But often I put off shopping and land up wearing the previous year's grunge all summer long. I try to comfort myself and think that it worked for Marlon Brando, but when I looked for an image of him, I found him looking immaculate in his T-shirts. Stanley Kowalski could have advertised Tide. I suspect it was written into his contract that while his characters could be sleazy, his clothes couldn't.

But spending a cold, rainy morning looking up photos of Mr. Brando isn't too bad an occupation.

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

In Which She Writes about Towels


Towels—you know, those things you dry yourself with after a bath—are for me a source of ever-increasing annoyance, guilt and humor.

Why annoyance? Well, over the years I have collected a large selection of absorbent rags . . . old dishtowels and frayed towels, diapers, T-shirts and discarded underwear. So when I spill anything, I reach for them or (and I know I shouldn’t) lashings of paper towels. My husband, on the other hand, wipes up everything with the newest and fluffiest towels he can get his hands on. He takes them into his workroom, he mops up spilt coffee or oil, he wipes up the kitchen floor and on those occasions when the basement has flooded . . . well, you get the picture. I have asked him so nicely, and to no avail, not to do it. When we had the downstairs bathroom re-modeled last fall, I bought some real fancy hand towels, the kind you only get out when guests are coming, and so far they have eluded  him. So far.

Why guilt? Just look at these brightly colored towels, which I fished (no pun intended) out of a closet when I was re-arranging my sewing supplies. Ten years or so ago I made a number of robes for my grandchildren to wear after swimming, just as forty years ago I had made them for my children. I went to a great deal of trouble to locate these towels to make more brightly colored, absorbent, hooded robes. It didn’t happen, and I am resigned. It never will.

As for humor, how many of you have worked your way through Wedding Registries, in which the dewy-eyed future bride and groom have requested “Two sets of towels, one white and one pale lavender?”  Hullo, there are lots of guests out there looking for some moderately priced gifts that fall between the Waterford chandelier and the Teflon spatula. Ask for towels, armfuls of them, preferably brown. When you have kids, believe me, you will thank me. Especially if they leave them at the swimming pool. Which they will.


Sidebar: I had this post written yesterday, and I was amazed to find in today’s Wall Street Journal an article which included words like “rebellion,” “outraged,” “upset,” and “anxiety and distrust.” Politics? No. TARP repayments? No way. Towels at the YMCA!

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Caroline's First Communion

Lovely day in Canton today for granddaughter Caroline's First Communion at St. Thomas a Beckett Church. A well-run ceremony, lots of music and nine second graders. There will be more next week, more the week after and so on. Much nicer than having them all one day. Then off to Liz and Jeff's for a great party.
Before Caroline's baptism, Liz asked the priest if there would be any problem giving her the middle name "St. Clair" after our lake. He laughed and commented that compared to the names some parents were giving their children . . .

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Veronica has a Birthday


A year ago we got the news we had been dreading. The birth of a new grandchild should be a cause for rejoicing, but the birth of this baby, our nineteenth grandchild, was a source of apprehension for us all, not least for her parents, our son Andrew and his wife Marcie, because this was April 18th—and her due date was early August. Fortunately Marcie had been in George Washington University Hospital for several days, so the very best of care was on hand for this little 1lb 4oz marvel.

Marcie kept a detailed journal chronicling Veronica’s first year, but it is only as this milestone rolled around that she could describe the trauma of the birth. The link to “Veronica’s Journey” is in the right-hand column of this blog. You can read about Veronica’s 119 days in the NICU and what life was like for Andrew and Marcie and for Veronica’s brothers Theodore, Linus and Sebastian and for her sisters Liesl and Josephine.

In turn, Marcie’s blog links to many other blogs written by parents of micro preemies. What an incredible, loving community it is. They support each other and share experiences. Alas, for some, the outcomes are less favorable.

Please note, Marcie is always on the go, mothering 6 children and holding down a full-time job for Child and Family Services in DC, but she took the time to dress the little cupcake in a cupcake!

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

"It's Outrageous"

"It's shameful."  I have been hearing such complaints from he who shares the house since 7:00 last night when we lost power. The power company website assures us that normal service will be restored by 9:30 p.m. tomorrow. He's right, of course: after the brown-out which messed up the computer, the black-out will now melt the ice cream, sour the milk and make life generally miserable.

At least we can heat water on the stove and have this warm and comfortable branch of the library just half a mile away. Catch you later.